Individual Talk Therapy

The gift of life is that as we heal within, our external world begins to shift as well. If you’re here, it’s likely because some part of you desires the healing that is possible for you. It is messy and difficult to look at the wounds that have led to suffering in your life, but it’s always worth it.

These emotional wounds are no different from the wounds we have on our physical bodies. If we get a cut on our skin, we must clean it and let it heal and scab and repair. Some wounds are deeper than others, and yet all deserve to be cleaned and tended to. Our emotional wounds often stay hidden because we can’t see them with our physical eyes, and instead, they play out in self-destructive ways. You will explore the pain and trauma you have experienced and how it affected your sense of self, your relationships, and your daily choices. You will explore the ways you act out, the ways you are triggered, and the ways to use your wounds to find wisdom and purpose. Through that exploration, by untangling the webs, you come back home to you, to the healthy version of you.

You have doors that open when you tend to your wounds:

Your wound is a door.

Your trauma is a door.

Your addiction is a door.

That toxic relationship is a door.

Your fear is a door.

Your secret is a door.

Your anxiety is a door.

Your desires are a door.

These doors lead to healing, new beginnings, and a deeper knowing of self.

Why is it important in therapy to talk about the past when it can be so painful? Because what we experienced in the past (and learning how to confront and reconcile it) can change our present and future selves. One of the core pieces of my work is guiding people back to themselves, back to their own power and inner radiance. This includes exploring all the systems and factors outside of themselves that have caused them to forget, all the burdens that were never theirs to carry, and all the ways they’ve distanced themselves from their true nature.

And so I believe in an approach to therapy that holds space for exploration of the past as well as the unconscious and shadow. Your shadow is always in the background of your consciousness, housing the parts of yourself that have been rejected, forgotten, and disowned. Shadow work is ultimately about learning how to separate your true self from the false beliefs and perceptions you’ve been holding onto, and to accept yourself, validate yourself, and own yourself. When you own yourself, you become the true creator of your life. By starting to make the unconscious conscious and integrating all parts of self, you can begin intentionally choosing to live from a place of greater alignment and authenticity. This form of deep diving will not only impact you individually but also your ability to show up fully in relationship to others.

As human beings, we all have patterns: some of which are healthy and others that no longer serve us. These patterns have become ingrained and can lead to addictive behaviors or mental health issues, which are all the psyche’s ways of attempting to cope with the pain of unhealed wounds. These patterns usually stem from a wound that is begging to be healed, but has been covered up, avoided, shunned, or numbed. What I know for sure is this: You must get to the raw, messy, dark root of the pain in order to heal it. As a therapist and as a woman who has also done this work, I know that it isn’t easy to talk about these things. It’s hard to face the parts of us that hurt. However, it is in these exact places where we must look. Why? Because when we don’t look to these original wounds, they become the driver of your life.

Through the process of therapy, you will be exploring your life story to uncover the parts of your psyche that need some loving – for it is running from the wound that grows it and leaning in with love that heals it. Embracing your darkness leads to the light.

Therapy Modalities

  • Psychodynamic

  • Attachment Theory

  • Client-centered

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS/Parts Work)

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

  • Shadow Work and Integration

  • Dreamwork

I approach the process of therapy from a psychodynamic, attachment-based, client-centered lens. This looks like digging up the bones of the past in order to find clarity around our present behaviors, thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and experiences. Our root wound is usually a wound from childhood. This is something that takes away a piece of our soul essence or in therapeutic words – that impacts our self-esteem and sense of self. This wound influences our choices and how we perceive ourselves and the world, and it generally comes from our parents or primary caregivers. Our original attachment wound is oftentimes where we download our attachment blueprint, which then becomes the map by which we choose how we view ourselves and how we view love and relationships. If we have a dysfunctional or misattuned experience around love as a child, it will highly impact and influence our relationships as an adult. The attachment wound also gives us access to other wounds, and so it is a powerful place to start.

Our earliest lessons about relationships inform almost all aspects of our later connections: to ourselves, other people, and the world. Attachment Theory is an important psychological theory that helps us to understand ourselves and learn how to work with who we are and how we relate in all types of relationships. Noticing when your attachment style comes up allows you to be in a place of empowerment because you can focus on creating healthy patterns for yourself to heal the attachment patterns that are causing harm in your life. I believe addiction (to substances and/or behaviors) is often an attachment disorder, so holding space for these wounds is an essential part of the therapy process.

I am guided by these practices, but most importantly, I am guided by our relationship and how we co-exist together in a space. Creating a safe and secure attachment can be one of the best healing agents for change. I am here to hold and confront you – while staying consistent and loving – which creates pathways for growth. Ideally, with time, you learn how to take the safety and connectivity you get from therapy to others and you build a greater internal sense of self as well.

My Therapeutic Approach

Phase 1: New Moon

From a spiritual standpoint, New Moons represent new beginnings. The darkness of a New Moon invites us to reflect on what is no longer serving us, and explore new seeds to plant to help us move into alignment. During this phase of therapy, we will venture into the darkness together to uncover what is wreaking havoc in your life and what needs to be loved and tended to. We may come face-to-face with the conditioning of your childhood, of society, of the identities that you have acquired, of the defense mechanisms, and all the ways you show up in the world. This phase symbolizes bravery, intention, and hope.

Phase 2: Crescent Moon

The Crescent Moon teaches spiritual lessons about the cyclical nature of life and our capacity for growth and transformation. Following the New Moon phase, it signals the end of total darkness and the beginning of a period of increasing light. As you move through the process of therapy, light will begin to appear - shining on your subconscious patterning and also serving as a beacon for change. This phase symbolizes metaphorical death, rebirth, and most importantly, surrender. The dark and light begin to merge and integrate. Like the moon, we, too, have the ability to start anew, grow, and transform ourselves.

Phase 3: Full Moon

The Full Moon represents the journey from emptiness to fullness, as we move from darkness into light. This moon phase is associated with release, and an essential part of successful therapy is tending to our psychological wounds and releasing the emotional charge they carry. Through this release, you become just as powerful as the Full Moon, finding your inner radiance and illuminating your whole being. It’s about integration - bringing love, acceptance, and light to the dark places within you so you can feel more and more whole. This phase symbolizes completion and clarity while stepping into your fullest potential.

Areas of Treatment

My education, training, experience, and passion is in treating the following areas:

  • Substance Abuse

  • Process Addictions (Sex, shopping, pornography use, gambling, gaming, etc.)

  • Love Addiction and Codependency

  • PTSD/Trauma

  • Relationship and Attachment Issues

  • Mood Disorders

  • Anxiety Disorders

  • Family Conflict

  • Life Transitions and Identity Issues

“The wound is the place where the light enters you.”

— Rumi